WAH, in the thick of divorce

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Thank you Zephyr and Azzork - I have been thinking about this and this was a nice reminder of what I need to keep doing. I guess I say 'dark' but I do keep him updated on kid things and talk to him when I have to. I have stopped just reaching out to reach out. If it can wait until I see him or know I am going to talk to him about a kid thing then I will wait to tell him non-important things at that time.

It is time for me to start being the lighthouse. I feel like I am ready to start letting go of the anger and resentment for the 'unappreciativenss' and for the past behavior. I do not want to be that person who holds grudges. I didn't think I was doing that but now I see that I probably was. Today is a new day and I can start over.