If I told you he flirted with a few women but nothing further- would that be OK? If I told you he kissed a few women but nothing further - would that be OK? If I told you he slept with one woman - would that be OK? If I told you he slept with several women - would that be OK?
I guess, my point is - is there something that he could have done in that time that would change how you act now? Or is it just a need to feel in control of the situation?