Originally Posted By: kippz
Hi hopeOK,

Thank you for your response. I agree, it's better to hear "I love you" when you know they are really feeling it. I'm just anxious- what if he never says it to me again?

Hoping everything is turning out great for you and your H.


If you both are working hard in the marriage and focused on meeting each others needs (highly recommend His Needs, Her Needs), it will come. I think it is just a matter of really depositing a lot into his love bank (an idea from that book) and reminding him of why he fell in love with you in the first place. Then he will really start to feel it & he will want you to know.


T: 14 M: 12
D: 9 S: 6
BD: 2/18/15 (H affair)
Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15
Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15
H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15
H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15