Yes I agree with you about the detachment. I am really enjoying my time with my kids as well as my free time with myself and/or my friends. It has gotten to the point of avoidance of my WW as much as I can....not b/c I don't love her anymore but b/c she really tries to bait me into her misery all of the time. She is struggling from what I understand, financially and with our kids.
She has never been alone in her life and now has been drowned in her responsibilities that I always took care of. Last weekend, she even called me to come over her house to "calm down" our d3 who was throwing a tantrum. I didn't go and offered to talk to d3 over the phone. WW got angry and hung up.
In a serious situation I would have been there but WW needs to be a mom and learn how to handle a 3 year olds tantrum on her own.
This is just an example of the many instances of BS she has been trying with me. She has also taken food out of my freezer to her house to feed the kids because she has no money for groceries. Yet she still drinks and gambles apparently. These things have become funny to me and really turn me off to any interaction with her.
T14 M5 SD15,D8,S6,D3 "Not Happy" 12/11/14 EA discovered 2/11/15 MC started 2/17/15 MC "put on hold" 4/3/15 W IC started 4/5/15 PA admitted 5/7/15 WW moves out 5/8/15 WW gets her own place 7/15/15