As far as her comments go, your suggestion has been the approach i was taking for awhile. It either seems that she doesn't believe me or just wants to be a jerk.
Its gotten to the point that I am tired of it and her "craziness" that I am not going to indulge her poking me. It is not her business anymore and she is gonna think what she thinks anyways. I am not doing anything to invoke these comments. Besides....Its not my job to make her feel better about things anymore, also, she has told me that she thinks that I should start dating, although I am not ready for that.
About her surgury, I guess to a neighbor, I would just send a text saying that I hope everything went well. Very to the point and done.
Last edited by HurtJef; 08/26/1503:10 PM.
T14 M5 SD15,D8,S6,D3 "Not Happy" 12/11/14 EA discovered 2/11/15 MC started 2/17/15 MC "put on hold" 4/3/15 W IC started 4/5/15 PA admitted 5/7/15 WW moves out 5/8/15 WW gets her own place 7/15/15