DBing still......WW still (Part 2)

[HurtJef]

Ok....been awhile since my last post but wanted to post an update and ask for some advice.

First, things with WW are pretty much limited to the kids. No more R talks and I am feeling pretty detatched. I feel that "drama fatigue" has helped me turn the corner. Also realizing the type of person my WW is has helped me step back and look at things from the outside. I still have difficult moments, usually after interaction with Ww but not in a "missing her" way, more in a "please go away" way.

The sitch right now is....My sd15 is struggling in her relationship with her mom. She is showing signs of rebellion with me as well. Younger kids seem to be doing better but still hate the swapping and two places. OM is around all of the time and has started doing things with my kids, much to sd15s and d8s chagrin.

My WW has been making comments to me insinuating that I am seeing someone else, and doing it in a snarky negative way. I do not indulge this behavior and ignore it completely. It isn't true and i find her hypocracy ridiculous.

I pretty much am staying the course....GALing and feeling pretty good about things. Gotten a few offers for dates which has helped my self esteem, but not something i am ready for.

Now....I have a question. My WW is having surgery tomorrow morning to remove a fatty cyst on her lower back. It is outpatient, and should not be too big a deal.
Should I reach out to her to let her know that I am thinking about her tomorrow? Or just let it go and let the day pass without acknowledging her surgery? I dont wanna be an a hole. I don't wanna be mistaken for pursuing either.