You know, Sotto, I thought my XH was the man of my dreams too, but lately, I find myself thinking that it might be nice to find a lovely gentleman to go see a movie with or spend time with. I'm in no rush to fall in love or even fall into bed with anyone, but male company from a nice man would be nice. So, I say flirt away and don't worry about it.
Good for you on moving forward with the financials. That is a hard thing to do, but a necessary step. Keep on keeping on, my friend!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
