Alaskangal, Thank you so much for your post. It was just what I needed to hear. I will definitely pull him and not push. I am going to re-read my journal to see what I was doing when he began doing those loving things for me, and I will repeat those things.
Wish me luck everyone. H emailed me at lunch and was sounding down. I may have pursued a bit.
H - Ahhhh, Lunch at last! Me - Nice, glad to see you H - How's your day going? Me - VERY well. Thanks for asking. I'm worried about you, though. Are you stressing? H - yup!! Me - Is there anything I can do for you? H - nope Me - How bout some visualization? Tonight, you, me, a snuggle blanket, some good hot chocolate or tea or beer, some Lobo comics, and lots of laughs. Happy wiggly doggies being their happy wiggly selves. I have to go to a meeting. I think you are wonderful and funny and lots of good things. I know you will be OK, and I am giving you (my best friend) a big hug right now. Go look on MMnet and have some fun dreaming about spring. H - Thanks, Have fun at your meeting
What do you think? Loving and emotionally available, or pursuing??
Is there anything I can do for you? 
