H has text back to say 'fine' to take money out of the joint account to pay the solicitors and asked whether I can sort out my end.

Huddy, new job is very hectic and busy. Making new friends and GAL here. Obviously, H isn't aware of this.

Wonka, thank for that reassurance, I had a F U moment towards H, thinking it wouldn't be so easy for him if he didn't have his OW1 and 2 to text/ see every day.

Should I sort out the payment at 'my end' to let H see I am accepting and moving forward or should I let him know if he could sort out in the UK?

My solicitors know that I am in no hurry.

Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18
EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13
Move to work abroad Sept 14
re establish contact with OW while away
D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15