Hi Rysin, well I guess given the geographical distance - you could just completely ignore. Or maybe you could tell her that this regular TMing it isn't working for you. She's in a R with someone else and given all that has passed, you and she are not 'friends.' Of course if there is anything to do with the dogs, she's welcome to get in touch. Equally, might you suggest moving comms over to email.....so it's less instant when she contacts?

I agree that you need to do something as she's behaving like W or BF, when she's in a R with OM. I can see why that wouldn't work for you.

I'm no vet of course, but just throwing a few things out there. Hopefully someone more experienced will stop by too... smile


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