This is the time to follow L advice. Absolutely to do that. I think so, and these matters are private to you and L. If asked " oh, I am unsure" then change the topic.
With regard to dating, I understand why you might casually think about this and I agree with MrBond, until the ink is dry then its poor role modelling. There is more work on you. I think what you need is good old fashioned GAL, honest to goodness get out and enjoy yourself with your mates GAL, new activityGAL, old activities GAL, hobbies GAL kids and dwh GAL. work GAL to come, how exciting.
I am very pleased to read more detachment and so very thrilled you are putting the boys first in your life. And dwh needs a life, your boys can see you doing healthy things with your life and having a life, holding your head with pride.
It isn't for me to say, but I am so proud of you, I am shedding a tear of compassion as I type. There is a man who is becoming the best he can be. More steps to do, a work in progress.
Smiling
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Last edited by Vanilla; 08/26/1506:44 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
