you really remained in control when the GF called and the do you love question. Now that everything is out and he wants to make this work, why didn't he just tell this girl no. Okay it was an EA and not a PA, I would think that that would be easier to break away from. You are doing so well and have come so far. I wouldn't put pressure on him, but the only way you can make all this come together is by him letting go of this FF once and for all. You truly need to focus on eachother and not have this FF lurking in the background. More cuddling opportunities tonight--let is snow, let it snow!!!
