We actually never argued. I don't know what needs I was not meeting... Maybe affection though I think I was OK there. Conversation, I was poor at, for sure. I definitely need to work on that.
I think we just needed to bond more and the bedroom will be more comfortable. I was just like everything I did was wrong. I am not kissing her right, not kissing her in the right spot, don't put your hand here when you kiss me, etc. So then I am thinking... was what I just did right, is she into it... I don't know. It was stressful for both of us. So it ended up being just sex which isn't good for anyone. I completely agreed it was an issue. I just wanted to work at it... thought it could even be fun.
