Hi Pinnacl, I was going to ask you what you thought you brought to the relationship that she had issue with. If she were posting, what would she say are the reasons she left? When you argued and she expressed her needs, what did she ask for? You mentioned sex, so that is a good start. You

Not to be a downer, but looking at your on again off again history, that seemed like a warning flag to me. Once or twice I can see breaking up and getting back together, but all those times? There is a pattern there that you probably need to figure out or you will just repeat it again.

You are doing great and a lot stronger than a lot of us. An entire week with no contact? That's power! Good luck to you.

H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21
M:12 BD:1/15
In-house Separation 2/15
DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15
Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16
Reconciliation 1/17
Obviously still struggling