I really did not act out other then slamming the door I was really trying to explain to him that I did not expect a gift or to acknowledge the day at all.
It was not what the gift was as much as a gift at all. I prepared to ignore the day expected him to forget, so I could deal wi th the day the best way I could.

I have spoken to H and tried to explain to H, but probably not doing a good job at all.
H just said OK and he would return coffee maker since Im not suppose to have coffee often.
Ok, I better just stop posting today or talking to H.
I need to go to bed and pray and hope I have not caused too much damage.
Im soo confused right now.

I do listen and try to apply the advice I receive here. I thought I was doing better,...


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW