Sorry I am such a putz here. You've got some great advice from Job and Ellie.
It's good that D21 is back in school and hopefully she'll learn some things that makes her realize that the Universe doesn't revolve around her. Hope she gets a job somewhere on campus or off-campus. Many college students do wait tables to pay the bills. It's a time honored tradition.
I am glad to read that you feel you're benefiting from the ADD women's support group.
Chin up. Keep your eye on the goals for yourself and work at it.
