Then
I go to him and ask if he understands where Im coming from and that Im not being ungrateful.
H says you are ungrateful.
I ask if he wants to talk H says he has nothing to say.
I tell him I dont want a anniversary gift, i see no reason for us to celebrate.
I said birthday or Christmas but not anniversary.
I ask again if he is going to respond. H says I have nothing to say.
I guess he is going to work at 6. I cannot stay in house so I say Ok and slammed door (poor door) and now heading for a pedi to cool down and shut my mouth.
Oh wow...this not good. I was good until H came in door, if only I had turned back and left before he came back home from wherever.

Help need advice


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW