So I get home
Coffee maker on table with a post it note which says "i did not forget".

I dont want a anniversary gift at all.
I dont need a coffee maker cause I will drink too much.
What should I do, leave the thank you card and be done.
OR Tell him the truth, I don't want to get an anniversary gift from a H who does not wear his ring or honor our marriage vows, he can take coffee maker back.


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW