Wonka hit on something big here. Her demons right now are the aftermath of the MLC and the A. Wonka mentioned some serious areas she is working and those are some tough tough areas. And what you said about you saying "if" she is interested in working on this M, when in fact she IS and it is quite clear that she is, even from this viewpoint, it probably makes her feel like what she is doing is being recognized, isn't enough, how you want it done, or at YOUR pace.
I am only 35, so take this with a grain of salt. I believe everyone goes through a midlife crisis. But it's not always a crisis for everyone because their coping skills or awareness are at a different level at the time they go through it. I don't think it always "demon" induced. I think it is actually quite normal to reevaluate, want to make changes, maybe have some regrets in life. I don't think all MLC are triggered by demons. I think most have to do with one's skills to deal with the changes that life brings.
What I think might be important going forward is not to face some "demons" she might have, but to recognize how to deal with the changes and recognize the feelings that could possibly trigger a MLC and deal with them effectively.
And again, this is a conclusion from observations in real life, seeing sitchs throughout the years on the board, and well, going through some major midlife emotions that kind of attacked me approaching 35.
