That is a big concern for me. I think with my wifes depression, depression meds, gallbladder surgery, pre-meno all in the last 2 years or so, she just went kinda nuts and started treating me really poorly. Basically just making me a last priority in her life, telling me what to do and how to do it, how to dress, constantly questioning me, the last 2 years I don't think I ever got any birthday, father's day, anniversary gifts or cards. She also lost it on me and yelled at me for a good 5 minutes in front of our kids a year ago and would not apologise. She actually said that she wanted to teach her girls to be strong towards dominant men. HA! I told her she is teaching them how to be divorcees and alone.