H needs to realise, once and for all, what he's going to lose. I don't know you, you've made mistakes, but you are genuine and a grafter. Now is the time for H to look in his glass, realise it's full of cream and he needs to ditch the whey that is clouding his judgement.
He needs to take the D off the table, and stop seeing OW, before the next smoothy chat.
How's the far east by the way?
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015