Thanks for clarifying your perspective in regard to "those demons."
Originally Posted By: CaliGuy
not the 'demons' I think about that set her into MLC, to this day I have no idea what it was from her childhood that sent her into this mess (I can only guess what the triggers were that started it)
What demons are you really talking about here? Keep in mind, those are what you are "guessing" at here.
MLCers vary from each individual. Some reintegrate without 'addressing' the inner demons as it is an organic process. Some do address those demons, like myself.
Are you prepared to accept W "as it is" without her 'working' on her so called inner demons? I have seen MLCers here on the board coming together without getting to the root of the MLC disease. All they know is that they feel into a deep, murky pool called "Fog" and then they come out of it without any real understanding of how or why it happened.
Take me for example here. I didn't have the awareness that the mist engulfing me was MLC because we have no frame of reference that allows us to recognize it as MLC as one would with puberty. Then the fog lifts, and we look around askew wondering what the hell happened to us.
It is an invisible disease that has no rhyme or reason behind it all. The awful thing is that it is not tangible that we can hold on and say with authority "That's definitely MLC" like one with a boy's adam apple (deep voice) or a young girl having her first period.
Are you mentally and emotionally prepared to accept that W may NEVER deal with her so-called "demons" that precipitated the MLC journey??
