Sandi, that is great advice and thanks. You should read that book. My wife read it and didn't agree with much of it. That should have been an alarm bell for me. She didn't agree with the dominant role of the father and seemed to take offense to it. The book portrayed the father as the anchor in the family, the strong, consistent, calming force. It was really interesting, especially considering that the author is a woman and a Doctor.
M: 48 W: 45 Married: 16 years D1-14, D2-11, D3-9 BD: May 29 She moved out 2 weeks later with kids Awaiting mediation
