I am with V on giving W some generalities on the theme. The key here is NOT to make it all about the M or W. You would want to be judicious with how much you share with W given that you two have had no contact for 4 months. Do this in dribbles as you two will need to re-build a friendship.
You don't scare away a new friend by getting too intense or deep, right? Same with W. She is a new friend that you've just met two weekends ago and starting from square 1. With that mind set, I think you'll do fine.
That's a great way to view it Wonka, you're right. Approaching her as a new friend as opposed to someone I need to bulldoze over with all of my new found knowledge is much healthier.
It also lets her continue to have her subjective reality, not force mine onto her, while giving her the continued space that she's still asking for.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
You are not trying to get inside her pants!!
Yea...um...(censored)...I'd be willing to chew my entire right arm off. Completely off. Without stopping. And smile all the way through the process...
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
