I get your angle ... but like I said .. I am 'unsure' ... its not as if she is working through these things and we discuss them, and the Demons I was referring to are not the items you listed .. those items are the results of the MLC and the A ... not the 'demons' I think about that set her into MLC, to this day I have no idea what it was from her childhood that sent her into this mess (I can only guess what the triggers were that started it) ... she has not shared this/nor have I poked or prodded ... hence why I said "she will deal with them in her way on her time table" I should have added "If she has not done so already."
As far as MY timetable... or giving her space .. when I was reeling a bit last week yeah I most likely pressured and owned it, I have stepped back since and just observed, STFU and listened to her share just as I have tried to do with this entire crisis
