It's nice to see you here. I agree in the self-fulfilling prophecy idea. Back in my early DB days, a successful Dber wrote on his thread (I can't remember who) that he always believed 100% in his heart that he would make it through. He never waivered from that belief. I remembered that post every time I felt my self waivering.
I think it is good that your H want to ML. Men feel love and connected through ML. I went 7 months w/o ML.
Your changes sound great. When I look back my H noticed all the changes even though he didn't comment or was suspicious at first. I did some of the same things, made breakfast, kept house nice, lost weight (I couldn't eat because my stomach was always in a knot) and H would say that none of these things would make a difference. Then the changes started to become routine and I believe that H liked it.
Just keep going slow and have lots of patience.
Christine
I am the master of creating positive energy and love in my own environment. I am the source of love in my life. It starts with me! This energy radiates from me! It gives me strength, courage, wisdom and grace!
