Py, one of the things I am worried about if I am no longer 'a feature' in his life in terms of contact. I am worried that 'out of sight out of mind' is the way H will go :-(
Nope. Not the case at all. If you are CONSTANTLY in H's face, he'll have no opportunity to see what it would be like without you. Your goal is not to be too available to H.
You know the push-pull dance. I am sure you've read that thread from Cadet's welcome post. When one goes away, then other person pursues to check if the person is still there. I've faced this dance with my hot new girl. It is human nature. The key is to be mindful of the dynamics and you'll do fine.
