Reality is setting in. I'm back home and he's gone and he's not coming back. D is in the works although it's only been filed. I haven't received anything else from his L. I think he expects me to make the next move but I'm not going to help him divorce me. I think I did enough damage when I filed for a Separation and I only did that to get him to move.
At the advice of my DB coach I have gone dark and H rarely contacts me. About every 4 days or so he has been sending a text about something. H doesn't really have a reason to contact me right now so I'm trying not to expect anything.
I'm heading off to a business trip today. At least it will get me out of the house. Our anniversary is next week and I'm trying to make plans that day. Then I'm going on vacation over Labor Day. Lot's of stuff planned to do but it doesn't fill the hole in my heart.
When he came by on Sunday to get a few things I did a 180. He left a lot of stuff all over the house. I consolidated it to the basement and garage. Normally I would have been all over him and insisting he get it moved. I didn't say anything. I was as upbeat as possible, friendly and brief.
I'm having a hard time balancing moving on and having hope.
Last edited by beckyb; 08/25/1501:11 PM.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
