Wow, E. What a touching story you posted. I think all of us on here can relate. Let us all be able to look at our scares from our M, reconciled or not, and know that we all love/d deeply.

It also reminds me of a famous quote about challenges. "If it doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you." Any of life's challenges are an opportunity for growth if you seize the moment. Without challenges and obstacles we would all remain stagnant. Some people choose to run from these challenges because it is easier and it seems it will hurt less, but in the end, they are losing out. I mean this is a big part of what marriage is, right? Two imperfect people joining to go through life together. It is by that special union that they tackle life's challenges only to grow and become better people together.

Last edited by BT13; 08/25/15 12:36 PM.

Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015