Rouky that is a great perspective. I know that the cancer was too much for her. In the first few weeks after diagnosis she was very caring and loving and affectionate. I was also unprepared for how sick I would get. I was in shock from what was happening to my body and my mind. My wife was in therapy during that time but I am not sure how effective her Doctor is. The person who she mostly communicated with was my Sister. It was from that communication that I learned of the extent of her affair. I also accept that no one is prepared to care for the person who is battling the cancer as I felt that even the medical professionals couldn't understand what I was trying to tell them.
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.