A Few Questions from a Newbie - thread 2

[Vanilla]

Eric,

You can still take advice, privately for you. Don't guess, or trap yourself into a deal you may regret.

This is between you and L and usually the first interview is free (in the UK), the reason is normally because of professional liability. I do the same thing with tax clients. It's universal and the same in the U.S. So you can visit several Ls or ring them, test a couple of legal views. I believe this is urgent and important. I can emphasise this is in your best interest.

Remember 100% of what they say and 50% of what they do. If you believe you have been guided well so far and been given advice that has impacted your sitch then follow through.

If the L says ok sounds good then you have confirmed your view if not then something is learned. It's a no lose deal, as you are emotional at the moment this is essential grounding. There are dads here who will also advise you. Remember you may need eventually to be the main parent for your kids and this is very important.

Keep your own counsel Eric.

This is something I recommend strongly. I don't think you will regret it. It is much more important than WW and OM, this is your kids.

I will keep checking in.

V