I should add that I am also sad that H spent so many years in a marriage he was so unhappy in because I neglected some very core needs. I really do feel for him in that regard and I do know that is where some of his actions and words are coming from. I known I still have a ton of work to get to the BT2.0 that I will be happy with and that can be healthy in my next R.


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015