My IC thinks these formulas are way too short. He tells me that for most people it's 3-5 years. Most of the people that get into new R's before that are rebounding to some extent or other.

I haven't been through this so I'm not going to debate it. Just sharing my IC's words.

Either way it's a long time, it's a big deal, and it kind of stinks. That's why finding appreciation and happiness for what we have is so important. There is no guarantee of the future, better live today like it's our last and be grateful for what we have and proud of how we're living!


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15