My story

[lonelee]

You will beat your self up over trying to analyze his everymove. Been there done that and its exhausting.

That is where detaching comes into play. Also dont expect things from him because you will be disappointed when they dont happen.

I would say not to over due it with the invites. Not everyday or even every week. Maybe he will wnder why your not doing it and maybe miss it.

Also I wouldnt accept every offer from him. Your busy G A L and let him see what alone time with his kids will be like for real with out you offering to help.

This is a big challenge for you i understand . Remember been there done that.. still doing it. : )