Well. There was no spewing. I went to my house. Kids were with my father.
Sat down with wife and simply said "I know you have been lying to me about what is going on between you and OM".
At first she tried (again) to deny it. I stayed very calm and in control and said "No. No more lies. I know about it and I have proof".
That made her listen. We talked for a while actually. I got an admission. An apology. Tears. Etc.
Told her I was moving back home. She asked if I could give her some time to find a place. Told her I would think about it.
She collapsed on all of her hard stance nasty play concerning the D.
It's kind of like a vindication to finally get an admission that I was right all along. But honestly, there are no winners here.
She has every intention of staying with him and divorcing. At least now I did finally come from a place of strength. And it looks like I'm going to get what I want and what is fair in terms of finances and custody.
