Cadet,

I have cut back on speaking to her. I have kids and can't avoid it. She says I'm mean, leave her alone. I don't even want to talk about us and I tell her so. I say I am moving forward. Crazy thing is she wants respect and she says we are done...ok...we are done. She says I did this my fault. I accept my responsibility in this.

I am doing what's right by being an involved Dad and it's like she and her mom want to screw me up over and side ways like bitter people.

I am am lost. What to do...it's driving me crazy.