Vanillia. Not spoken to SIL for a while and I'll wait for her to contact me. Mthanks for the hug.
Huddy. Thanks for stopping by.
Hi Sotto. You're right re doing what's best for the kids. Selling the house would benefit EXW a lot more than me I have my income but she' doesn't have much I have asked EXW about selling and she has refused saying the kids love the house and shouldn't have to move. Im having a bad few days and need to pull myself together. Thanks for being there.
Jim. Thanks mate
I can't see EXW giving up her new life because she seems to have accepted it and she had 25 years of me and left !!
Nothing's changing. She seems happy enough around me and comfortable I take this as a bad sign because she isn't showing any signs of change
Your right re doing nothing while upset but it feels like I should just move on but I do see how it's more to punish her than really benefit me
Beaglly. Thanks for your comments and like Jim Your right re reacting while upset. Thanks for your input
Thanks to you all. I know I'm in a better place than a lot of people on here and I should appreciate that a bit more. Re the GAL I love look into a few things and see what I can find.
