Running stuff by the board:

1) I am going to the airport to meet them whether my W and MIL want me there and think I am "butting in" or not.

2) I will bring flowers for each of my 3 daughters and nothing for W or MIL.

3) I will dress really nice, casual for my girls.

4) I will be polite and cordial to W and MIL but no hugs, kisses, just a "Hi" and a smile.

5) I will tell the girls to contact me when they get settled to arrange a time to see my new place and spend some time together.

M: 48
W: 45
Married: 16 years
D1-14, D2-11, D3-9
BD: May 29
She moved out 2 weeks later with kids
Awaiting mediation