Can't my wife realize it's what is she doing to the kids?
In her opinion it is not about the kids. Everything is about what she wants in that instant (and subject to change without notice).
Yes, Sandi. And by reading your posts I already know we cannot do anything about it. I wouldn't care if it weren't for the kids. Do you all want to know what my son told us before going to bed? "This was the best birthday I have ever had". I am so glad I could give him a good day, but it is the last he has had with his family intact. How will he be celebrating his birthday in one year? Let me just hate that person my W has become for some more hours. She will be gone in half a day.
Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15
