I do plan on setting some boundaries for how she treats me. I have always had the belief that it is good to let people vent when they want to. You get to hear everything they had pent up, everything that has been bothering them and that they think is wrong with R. Hearing it once is enough however. It did help me piece together everything that she thought was/is wrong. The actual R side is minimal, this is mostly house and finance related.
Question - what do you think the chances are she comes back from this 30 day vacay a little cooler given we have had zero contact? She couldn't go 2 days without communication while we were married.
M: 48 W: 45 Married: 16 years D1-14, D2-11, D3-9 BD: May 29 She moved out 2 weeks later with kids Awaiting mediation