When is kindness enough?

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I wouldn't be the one to initiate the kiss. Reread the rules, you want to keep a good PMA and don't appear cold. It's her loss and ou shouldn't begin acting angry about it and lash out at her.

That is sound advise, Fogg.
And, if I would be able to think rationally for a second, an obvious one.
Fortunately, I have this forum and you guys.

Reality is starting to check on my W.
She wants to start a new life, so she decided to rent a new flat and leave the one we have been occupying for the last three years in this foreign land.
The town we live in is a horrible one, no parks, no public areas, cars parked everywhere.
I was fortunate to find in the centre a house with a closed yard.
Because one of my kids has some skeleton problems I had to train with him rope jumping and other children games. He is so shy I would have never managed to do that in an open space or public garden.
Three weeks ago he went to the doctor, who was amazed at his development. He said we should keep doing the same thing.
My wife is expecting just that from me, she told me, but her fog doesn't allow her to see that it will be impossible once we live apart and she moves to a flat.
Besides that, our kids have become good friends with the neighbours grand-kids.
These kids are used to play outside, in the same yard.
It's a cultural thing this country has, kids still play outside without parents supervision. It is doing wonders to my eldest self-esteem.
So today my W told him they will be moving out. He immediately started crying and it was hard to calm him down.
Barely he knowns that besides moving to a new place he will be without his dad.
Can't my wife realize it's what is she doing to the kids?