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If we do things for the well being of our kids but the WAW benefits are we not to do them?


IMO, you can't narrow it down that easily, b/c almost everything you do for the kids the WAW will benefit, someway. However, you wouldn't refuse to give child support just b/c the WAW may spend it for groceries that fed everyone in the household.

The original thought on this line was the attitude behind the action.....whatever the action may be.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!