I think this brings up a really good point overall and again, I can see both sides of the situation. If we do things for the well being of our kids but the WAW benefits are we not to do them? For example if my WAW asked me to watch our little one so she could go out on a date I would tell her to go ____ herself. If on a night I didn't have the kids but my wife asked me to drive my daughter to a basketball game because she was busy with another daughter. If I say no my daughter doesn't go and everyone thinks I'm a bad dad. If I say yes is that bad DB-ing?
In this situation, I don't think we could give a "ruling" for such a broad example as being good or bad DBing. I believe there would be various opinions, and it comes down to the individual DBer and his/her stitch (WW/MLC/WAS, etc.) and where they presently stand.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
