How long did you pursue for after BD? Did you break all the 37 rules like I did, multiple times? I pursued and tried to be the perfect husband for 2 full months, I begged, pleaded, wrote letters, bought gifts, you name it. She did admit that all the work I was doing around the house was not much different from the last year.


M: 48
W: 45
Married: 16 years
D1-14, D2-11, D3-9
BD: May 29
She moved out 2 weeks later with kids
Awaiting mediation