Ugh. Sorry to hear no movement from your WW. I get the same conflicting signals from mine, like she has a lot of regrets. But she never mentions wanting to even try to work on our M, and I never bring it up. Like you, I'm in a holding pattern, but it's getting easier every day. For some reason, I expect that around the time I feel I'm fully over WW and ready to move on, that will be when she has a change of heart. And I'm worried that by then, I will be the one not wanting to save the M anymore. Just stay the course brother. We didn't choose this path, but we need to make the best of it for ourselves.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.