Ah, so sorry it has gone a bit south on you. Sounds like he is dragging his feet a little bit. I'd definitely take care of you while keeping positive and upbeat with him. Taking a step back is probably a good idea... might help if he doesn't feel forced into it.
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15