have i been making mistakes too long part 4

[tkdmme]

Azz,

Im not offended. And I appreciate the insight. Also, I know the original post about repair her car wasn't clear. I was a bit angry at the time.

I don't want to do her any favors but in the case that my kids are involved I have no choice. Even though my W has fired me as her husband In my mind I still have to take care of the family. her included. This does not mean I cater to her but it does mean that I have to continue to take care of the bills and our kids. I want so bad to give her bills to her and say. These are your problems now. I know that she cant pay these bills and that if they don't get paid it effects me as well. I am in the middle of a refinance of our house.

Yes, I think she wants the best of both worlds. I am only providing the bare minimum of support for her. She is not herself and she is in the "fog". She is not making good decisions. I will not intervene in any of her bad choices that only effect her. But if it effects me and the kids I have to intervene.

I don't know how well this fits with DB so let me know if I need to make any corrections.