Thanks, Pyrite. I have sent an email to H regarding the payment of the solicitors for the next stage of the financial order. I was reluctant to send it initially as H always thought I was controlling everything. I like to see this step as me taking and accepting that my old M is dead and am moving forward.
The solicitors is refusing to send out the draft report without the preliminary payment, which is fair enough.
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15