Also crossing the friend zone are the +10K text messages. Messages she sent and received while I was in the same room as her. While she was shopping with my D:13, while at work, when she should be sleeping, when driving to and from work, when she was in shower getting ready for work (pic/vid files). Totally inappropriate and obviously a EA at minimum. She denies and I get angry. I am not stupid. You are ruining not just our R, but our family. You are hurting the kids and being selfish. You are not the person I married. The person I married is dead to me. You wouldn't give our R a chance, didn't want to work on this, told me we are done and now I see why. You have OM. My kids are now awake because I'm yelling these things at her. Was not a good moment. I can't stop. She shows little to no emotion and will not take responsibility and won't admit to affair. This makes me more upset because I know I'm being lied to. It doesn't add up. She says he is just trying to help me because he knows I'm sad and I'm leaving you. I say BS! He is not just a friend. Friends don't buy married women jewelry with a love note message and the number of texts was beyond friends. I have never received 175 messages from W in one day. The log was like that everyday for the two months I had access to.