I fixed the car because I had to. It was the right thing to do regardless of the w. Again I understand the point but things are not always so cut and dry. My family is In a crisis and I'm going to do what I need to do as the man of this family.
I know my wife has fired me but that does not relieve me of my duties. I have to support my kids and make sure that they have what they need. This is something I will not apologize for. Yes my w has fired me but I will not let my children go without what they need because of her decision.
I appreciate this site and I love it. It has brought me through some hard times. My kids come before anything. It is my duty as a father to make sure that they are ok.
This has absolutely nothing to do with the w.
M:39 W:40 S:10 S:7 D:12 BD:3/5/15 Separate BR:3/5/15 W moved out with kids 1/3/16